[TASK] improve labels, unify wording

See merge request !21

enableFormelementSelectionButton in FinisherSetupBE.yaml for fields: replyTo, bcc & cc for both finishers

1584 add more placeholders to template editor fields

See merge request !20

also set 'enableFormelementSelectionButton' to true for some fields

- Fixed PHPDoc
- Fixed the runtime template cache
- Fixed coding styles
- Changed preg_match to strpos for better performance

- Added static runtime cache

[BUGFIX] Fix broken file reference attachments

See merge request !19

This commit fixes FileReference attachments of multiple consequtive mails
that are sent via the mail queue, for example via the forms finisher with
a user and an admin mail, where files need to be attached to both mails.

- Added JS confirmation before sending the email
- Added a hidden field for better distinguishing the preview emails (there was a fluid bug)
- Added an extra groupBy to avoid sending multiple emails to the same recipient