This commit fixes FileReference attachments of multiple consequtive mails
that are sent via the mail queue, for example via the forms finisher with
a user and an admin mail, where files need to be attached to both mails.

- Added JS confirmation before sending the email
- Added a hidden field for better distinguishing the preview emails (there was a fluid bug)
- Added an extra groupBy to avoid sending multiple emails to the same recipient

Fixed:
- preview markers in the newsletter
- keep values in the newsletter form after sending
- fixed pagination performance in MailQueue

Sending to subgroup members
Markup changes

To save performance, we exclude deleted records from the update process,
because it is unnecessary to process such records.